So, I’m a single guy and it’s been that way for a while. I’ve come a long way in terms of not being so needy and dependent, which has improved my relationships along the way. It can be a bit of a challenge when society tells us how important it is to be partnered, and Hollywood doesn’t help with its endless supply of fairy tale romantic comedies. Don’t get me wrong, it’s my favorite genre, I just have to keep reminding myself that my happiness and success don’t depend on my relationship status. I also have to keep reminding myself of a few other important things that I am still hammering into my head. I will share those with you here, and hopefully, you will find them helpful in releasing the patterns of needing love from a partner so you can shift into your truthful, loving energy, which will attract all that is resonant with your deepest desires.
Reminder to self: Release looking, release trying, release needing. Imagine all the beautiful feelings that come along with being with that perfect partner, the one that sees you, understands you, and finds even your darkest corners super attractive. It’s the feeling of being in love, peace, gratitude, forgiveness. It’s that rock-solid certainty that everything in the world is beautiful and sweet. Now, notice that simply reading about the feeling, you start to feel it, even just a little bit.
Now remind yourself that all those feelings are available right now in this moment. The time is always now, you know that for certain. That means now is infinite, and if it’s infinite, it contains everything, including all the amazing “being in love” feelings.
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